Relationship Advice

Hello guys and welcome back from the Easter break. I trust you had a swell time, well as for me, i spent it working and going through feeds at my leisure. I enjoyed it though cuz in those three of four days, i achieved quite a lot but missed out something i cherish very much. Family. Yeah, you know what they say, you gain some and you loose some. I'm sorry guys and i pledge to be present in subsequent gatherings to come.

Ok, so while doing what i do, i found some time to go through social feeds. And as usual, found a lot of interesting things on there. There were pictures, videos, very good posts, updates, jokes and everything else that would put a smile on your face. Yeah, not until i came across one post about a female crying about how cruel her hubby is. Cheating and not catering for needs... all that stuff. Ok, so we hear that all of the time.

Here's the thing though and this the truth. If at a time you were picking apples together or playing in the fields or always taking a walk or simply like been together all the time  don't mean it must continue forever. Yeah, it could and there are way higher probabilities that it wont. You dont get it? well it's like this, growing up you had some very close friends and did stuffs together, but right now, life's taken everyone to different places and now you dont see as much as you do or simply are pursuing different interests. Now, you'll say "naaahhh that's different" and i agree with you. Why? because we talking about relationships here. Ok so we are. But the thing is, thesame thing you seek and attaches you to your one time best friend as a kid is the same thing tha will attach you to your future hobby or whatever you'll like to call it and so "i do not agree with you".

Yeah, so people make one common mistake all the time and they end up getting heart broken and for some others it's just a scam, taking and forcing the relationship on someone for whatever reasons. But lets assume that you love bob so much that you cant do without bob, as you think. You've got money and good source of income, pretty and just perfect. The perfect to die for kind of Chic and every guy or there about will do whatever it is to get you as a girl friend. But NO, because you like bob. But problem is bob doesnt like you in the same capacity as you do him. bob is not thinking in that direction and certainly dont want to have anything to do with you. My advice... Let it go. That's of course after you've tried every possible trick that wont put you in trouble that is. It's painful, i know the rejection but a thing that we as humans have to understand is that, what doesn't naturally and freely come to you will find it's path out of your life in time. And why force someone to be with you or love you when the person will always feel unhappy, pained and unsatisfied. If you are happy and he or she isn't, trust me it's only a matter of time before the relationship shatters.

So, been in a relationship is like making a pledge or a vow. It's more serious when it's marriage but then a lot of people do a lot of things for different reasons. But let's say you guys at a time were truly in love with each other and now, he's changed bla bla bla. I suggest you trouble shoot the problem starting from yourself down to what he's meaning at the moment. If you get annoyed and leave, that's fine but how are you sure the next guy wont be the same or even worse? There are so many permutations to these, however it's important to note that nothing in life is a guarantee. Just because you love someone dont mean they have to love you back. If  it's fifty fifty, hey i'm happy for you and if they dont love you in return, please dont go about shooting people at random or taking it out on the next person to come. There is Love enough for everybody, you just have to see, feel and appreciate it for what it is, if it at least conforms to about seventy percent of what you are looking for in a relationship. And if you are patient enough, who knows... you could meet mister perfect.